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The official site of the Ministry of Fairness, Niceness, and Free Ponies
To put yourself forward as someone good enough to do interesting things is, by definition, to expose yourself to all kinds of negative judgments, and as far as I can tell, the fact that other people get to decide what they think of your behavior leaves only two strategies for not suffering from those judgments: not doing anything, or not caring about the reaction.

Clay Shirky - A Rant About Women

Notwithstanding the title, this is a good read on self-confidence for anyone, irrespective of gender.